Interpretation Of Gesture And Matters Needing Attention In Handshaking Ceremony

< p > < strong > (1) < a href= > //www.sjfzxm.com/news/index_c.asp > handshaking ceremony < /a > exercise occasions < /strong > /p >

< p > welcome guests arrival; < /p >

< p > when you are introduced to meet people; < /p >

< p > a long time to meet again; < /p >

< p > social acquaintances; < /p >

< p > visit when leaving; < /p >

< p > farewell guests; < /p >

< p > when others congratulate or present to oneself; < /p >

< p > please others; < /p >

< p > when others help themselves, wait.

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< p > < strong > (two) the rule of handshaking ceremony is < /strong > < /p >.

< p > there are precedence points when shaking hands.

The order of shaking hands is mainly to respect each other's needs.

The order is mainly determined by the social status, identity, sex and conditions of the two sides.

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< p > 1. the order of shaking hands between two people is: the superior is prior, the elders are first, the lady is first, the master is prior: and the lower class, the younger generation, the gentleman, the guest should first greet, after seeing the other party stretches out the hand, then stretches the hand to grasp with him.

Do not stretch out your hand before your superiors or elders.

If the identity, age and duties of the two persons are similar, they should first extend their hands to be polite. < /p >

< p > 2., for example, when a woman meets her husband for the first time, the woman can shake hands with the man and give each other a nod. If the guests are received, men and women, both men and women, have to extend their hands to welcome the hostess.

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< p > 3. if a person shook hands with many people, he should first be the superior, the lower, the elder, the later, the first and the next.

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< p > 4.. If one side ignores the order of handshake, first extend the hand, and the other party should immediately grasp it to avoid embarrassment.

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< p > < strong > (three) handshake ceremony performed < a href= "//www.sjfzxm.com/news/index_c.asp" > correct posture < /a > /strong > /p >

< p > standard handshake is: when shaking hands, the two people are about one step away from each other, the upper part is slightly on the front side, the right hand is extended, the four fingers are folded together, the thumb is opened, and the palm of the two hands is vertical to the ground, and the upper and lower jogs are generally suitable for two or three seconds.

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< p > < strong > (four) handshake ceremony < a href= "//www.sjfzxm.com/news/index_c.asp" > body language < /a > /strong > /p >

The handshake is different from P.

Understanding the typical styles of handshakes can help us understand the way of communicating with each other's personality, emotional state and basic attitude towards others through handshake. It also helps us to consciously apply various specific patterns in different situations and different objects in interpersonal communication.

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< p > 1. humility handshake.

Also called "begging style" handshake, obedient handshake.

That is, the palm upward or left hand gesture is shaking hands with the other side.

People who shake hands in this way tend to be cowardly and passive. They may be more democratic, modest and approachable. They are more respectful, respectful or even afraid of each other.

Such people tend to change their views, not stubborn, willing to be controlled by the other side.

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< p > 2. dominant handshake.

Also known as the "control" handshake, grasp the opponent's hand in the palm downward or downward to the left.

People who shake hands in this way want to express their superiority, initiative, arrogance or dominance.

Generally speaking, such people are clean, decisive and highly confident. Once decisions are made, it is very difficult to change their views and their style is not democratic. When the social status of the two sides of the communication gap is relatively large, the higher social parties tend to shake hands with each other in this way.

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< p > 3. weak handshake.

Also known as the "dead fish" shake hands, when shaking hands out a no strength hand, giving people the feeling of holding a dead fish.

Such a person's character, if not born weak, is indifferent to people.

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< p > 4. "gloves" handshake.

When you shake hands, you can hold your opponent's right hand with both hands, which means you can show more respect and kindness to the other party, and you can also express your gratitude and desire for others.

But this handshake should not be used in the first few times to avoid unnecessary misunderstanding.

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< p > 5.. Grasp the fingertips and shake hands.

When shaking hands, it is not a pair of hands that touch each other, but intentionally or unintentionally pinch each other's fingers or fingertips.

When women shake hands with men, they often adopt this way in order to express their reserved and steady.

If you shake hands with the same people, it seems a bit cold and strange.

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< p > 6. handshake.

That is to say, when holding a handshake ceremony, only holding four fingers to hold hands with others shows that this person lacks cultivation, arrogance and indifference.

(except for the handshake between a lady and gentleman in the middle ages of Europe) < /p >

< p > in addition, when the other person holds your hand for a long time and holds your hand firmly, shaking his hands, it shows that his feelings for you are sincere and warm.

When the other person holds your hand, even your fingers do not want to bend. It's a routine way to perfunctory, indicating that the other person's feelings for you are cold.

When you haven't finished speaking, the other hand puts out your hand, indicating that your words are not interested in him. You should finish the conversation as soon as possible.

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< p > < strong > (five) the attention point of handshake < /strong > < /p >

< p > pay attention when you shake hands, do not look left and right, while shaking hands, greeting others.

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Don't shake hands across the threshold when you meet and say goodbye to P.

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< p > handshaking is always a gesture of holding. It is rude to sit around shaking hands, except for the old, weak or disabled.

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P can not be inserted into the left hand pocket.

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< p > men should not wear hats and gloves to hold hands with others. Those who wear uniform may not remove their caps, but they should first raise their hands and then shake hands.

Ladies can wear a decorative hat and decorative gloves to shake hands.

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< p > avoid using your left hand to hold hands unless you have a disability in your right hand.

When his right hand is dirty, Ying Liang gives his hand to the other side and signs his statement and apologizes.

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< p > handshake must be uniform, female general symbolic grip can be, but the posture should be calm, warm and sincere.

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< p > do not grab hands while shaking hands, do not cross hands, and wait for others to shake hands.

Cross phase grip is usually a kind of impolite behavior.

Some countries regard cross handshaking as a symbol of omen and cross it into "ten", meaning cross, and think that they will surely attract unhappiness.

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